Confidence is the key to put the sexy back
Younger people think hitting forty is old and time for the retirement home, but truth be told, getting to forty is exciting. This age is where you accept yourself, you know what you want, how you want it and when you want it. Minor things are just what they are, and you stress less about the things you cannot change. One thing that may have slipped off on your way to forty is your sexiness. So, this post is about how to put the sexy back in your forty-year-old body.
Being sexy has nothing to do with wearing booty shorts and going bra-less in public; it is actually the opposite. It is getting in the habit of wearing sexy or racy underwear. No one has to know what you have on under your outfit, but you. This instantly gives you the sexy vibe that transmits unto others without you putting in the extra effort. When you feel sexy you will look sexy.
When you feel sexy your confidence soars. Confidence is loving yourself and feeling good about you. You do not have to look like a supermodel to be sexy, in fact, sexiness has nothing to do with looks. It is having that hit factor that folks cannot put their finger on. It is almost like having a light around you.
The Hit Factor
Have you ever been somewhere, and someone walks in a room and everyone turns around almost simultaneously to look at them? You noticed t hat there is something magnetic that pulls people to them.
In order to develop your confidence, one has to get rid of all the negativity that has been place on them. Now, replace it with positive affirmations on a daily basis. Look in a mirror and speak to yourself, tell yourself you are worth it, how much you love yourself and deserve to be loved. You can do anything you put your mind to do. The secret is believing what you are speaking in your life and then your confidence will start developing and the sexy will start emerging. It is injecting positivity, self-worth, and be assured. You will feel better about yourself and other will see the confident you.
You are not the center of attention
The world does not revolve around you. There is no need to be the center of attention to be sexy. Do not get it in your head that everyone needs to focus on you for you to feel sexy. Be comfortable with being just you. What others think should not distract from the fact that you are comfortable with yourself.
How to put the sexy back in your forty- year old body is not by beginning overly provocative and sensual; it is simply displaying class and style. It is mainly how you carry yourself and not how you look. Don’t get me wrong looks are appealing, but when it fades nothing is going to be left. Beauty is not sexy; It is provocative. Sexy is your personality you exude that enhances with your confidence.
Love your Imperfections
It may be time to get out of the internal mirror and do a bit of self-evaluation. Finding fault with themself is what ladies do however, that is wrong. Accepting your imperfections and respecting your body, you will have a ‘take me as I am attitude and that is because you are COMFORTABLE WITH your body.
Sexy will be the new you when you put all the above into consideration. Your confidence will soar and you will feel better about yourself. Now, that your mental state is set right you can embellish yourself with sexually appealing clothing, within limits of course. You no longer have to go to Jamaica to get your groove back.